GLOSSARY

Sexual Practices / Preferences

Ageplay (kinda Roleplay) Role-playing games in which the participants act as if they were of a different age, for example in the well-known ‘father-mother-child’ game played by children. In principle, the age of the assumed role can be higher or lower than the actual age of the participant.
Anal stretching Collective term for exercise techniques with the aim of stretching the sphincter muscles of the human anus.
Anal masturbation Autosexually induced anal penetration or stimulation of additional extragenital erogenous zones (G-spot / P-spot) through anorectal insertion of objects (dildos / vibrators / anal plugs) with the intention of increasing the strength of orgasm.
Anal intercourse Insertion of the erect male penis into the anus of the sexual partner.
Anilingus Rimming or rim job; also known as oroanal contact, tongue anal, anus licking. Oral sexual practice in which the anus, usually including the perineal region, is stimulated with lips and tongue. This can be done both superficially and by penetrating the anus with the tongue.
Barebacking unprotected sexual intercourse
Blümchensex German term for gentle, caress-oriented sexuality, which includes both petting and – although not necessarily – sexual intercourse; also known as cuddling sex, not raw & cuddly, not kinky.
Bukkake Group sex practice in which several men ejaculate on another person. This usually takes the form of facial ejaculation, a form of facial insemination (also known as a cumshot).
Casual sex (also casual sex or casual dating)  Various types of sexual activity outside the realm of romantic relationships.
Chem-sex Sexual intercourse under the influence of synthetic drugs. 
Cleopatra’s grip During Cleopatra’s grip, the vaginal muscles contract around the inserted penis and massage it. The man lies flat on his back in this position. Both partners remain still without moving their hips and without rhythmic thrusts. The woman kneels on all fours above the man and pulls the erect penis into herself by tensing and relaxing her vaginal muscles. The woman needs strong vaginal muscles and practice for this exercise. The tensing of the pelvic floor muscles has a pleasure-enhancing effect. The technique is known in Tantra as pompoir (Tamil). Other terms are Bhaga Asana (Sanskrit) and Playing the flute (English).
Coitus interruptus An outdated and very unsafe method of natural contraception in which sexual intercourse is interrupted so that the man ejaculates outside the vagina and vulva in order to prevent the sperm from reaching the egg in the woman’s fallopian tube.
Cuckold Refers to a man who obtains sexual pleasure in a committed partnership or love relationship through his partner’s intimate contact with other men (cheating). The cuckold may prefer dominant, voyeuristic, masochistic and/or submissive behavior.
Cybersex Various forms of virtual eroticism, sexual interaction and pornography such as cam sex, sex simulations or sexting
Daoist sexual practices A way of practising sex that originates from Daoism but was not practised by all Daoists, some of whom were also monks.
Deepthroating or gagging Variation of oral sex in which a penis or dildo is fully inserted into the throat.
Depiliation Removing body hair during foreplay, including pubic hair. Shaving someone as an erotic, as a turn on.
Dirty talk The use of eroticizing or very descriptive and direct words before or during sexual intercourse to increase sexual stimulation.
Dogging (sexual practice) A form of exhibitionism in which people meet for sex in public places, such as in the woods or in parking lots.
Doctor games and clinical eroticism Among adults, sexual practices similar to doctor games are sometimes found in a BDSM context (sexual role play). This type of erotic play is also known as clinical eroticism, clinic sex or, in reference to the white clothing worn by doctors and nursing staff, white eroticism.
Dry sex A sexual practice that is widespread in sub-Saharan Africa. Dry sex became particularly well known in connection with AIDS, as it facilitates the transmission of the HI virus. For dry sex, the woman inserts a powder (made from crushed herbs, roots or even small stones) or aluminum hydroxide stones into her vagina. This counteracts lubrication, as the vaginal secretions are bound by the powder. The vaginal vestibule and the vagina are thus kept artificially dry, which increases the frictional resistance for the man’s penis during sexual intercourse and supposedly increases pleasure. This results in painful injuries to the vaginal skin.
Erotic electrostimulation Sexual practice in which direct current or low-frequency alternating currents are used for sexual stimulation
Erotic lactation Breastfeeding of an adult partner or lactation primarily for erotic reasons.
Erotic roleplay Two or more sexual partners take part, each assuming a specific role and behaving and possibly dressing or disguising themselves according to this role in order to give themselves and/or their partner pleasure.#
Exhibitionism Sexual preference in which the person concerned finds it pleasurable to be observed naked or during sexual activities by other (usually strangers). It is therefore the opposite of voyeurism.
Facesitting Sexual practice in which one sexual partner sits on the face of the other with their genitals and/or buttocks. This can be done either naked or clothed.
Felching Sexual practice in which one person sucks semen (usually their own) from their partner’s vagina or anus after ejaculation, possibly using aids such as straws.
Fellatio (blowjob, deepthroat) Form of oral sex in which the penis is stimulated by the sexual partner’s mouth, tongue and lips – in deepthroating also by the throat region; sucking, blowing and sucking on the penis are also possible.
Femdom Abbreviation for female dominance and refers to variations of BDSM in which a woman takes on the dominant role. The term can also refer to the dominant woman herself. By analogy, the dominance exercised by men or the male dominant is called maledom.
Fingering Sexual satisfaction of the vulva, vagina or anus with the fingers or hand. ‘Fingering oneself’ is synonymous with female masturbation. It is the female equivalent of the male handjob (manual stimulation of the penis) and may be performed as a penetrative or non-penetrative sexual act. It is to be distinguished from fisting or similar sexual practices.
Fisting Sexual practice in which several fingers or even one or more hands are inserted into the vagina (brachiovaginal) or anus (brachioproctal).
French Kiss a passionate kiss in which the partners use their tongues
Threesome Colloquial term for sexual intercourse between three people and thus represents the smallest possible variant of group sex.
Frotteur A person who is sexually stimulated by rubbing against other people.
Group masturbation Sexual practice in which a group of mostly male people form a circle and masturbate themselves or each other.
Group sex Sexual practice involving more than two people. If three people have sex with each other, this is called a triplet or, colloquially, a ‘threesome’.
Group sex is often practiced as an exchange of partners between two or more couples. Group sex often takes place at swingers parties and in swingers clubs set up specifically for this purpose.
Gang bang A special form of group sex is the gangbang, which is characterized by an extreme majority of dominant or active-penetrating participants and the alternating penetration of less submissive or passive-receptive participants. In a reverse gangbang, on the other hand, the receiving participants are in the vast majority. If the receiving participant performs fellatio on a larger group of penetrating participants without being penetrated vaginally or anally, this is referred to as a blowbang.
Hairy Burger
Hairy Mary: Personification of the vagina. In gay speak, a macho male homosexual who’s true sexual-orientation is not obvious to the untrained (straight) eye. Synonyms: butch-queen, crew-cut-queen, macho-fem, roarer.
Mohair knickers: Britishism coined in the 1990s for a woman with an extremely hairy crotch area.
Hairy burger: female genitalia and pubic-hair, derived from meat and fur. And could be a word for an act of cunnilingus: To eat a fur-burger – eatEAP. It’s yummy. EAPme.
Handjob Sexual practice in which one sexual partner stimulates the penis of the other with their hand alone, usually until ejaculation.
Urethral stimulation Sexual practice in which the male or female urethral opening (lat. ostium urethrae externum) or the urethra (lat. urethra) is stimulated. This can be done either manually or by inserting objects.
Scrotal infusion Sexual practice where sterile isotonic saline solution is slowly infused into the man’s scrotum. This leads to a swollen, heavily hanging scrotum, which is perceived as erotic if you have the right preferences. It is therefore a deliberately induced hydrocele
Sexual intercourse Traditionally understood to be the heterosexual union of two sexual partners in which the man inserts the erect penis into the woman’s vagina – vaginal intercourse.
Injaculation A male orgasm caused by (finger) pressure (‘Saxonian grip’) on a genital point (million dollar point, saxonus, also Jen-Mo point) between the scrotum and anus or by tensing the pubococcygeus muscle (PC muscle) and preventing ejaculation to the outside. This term is to be distinguished from retrograde ejaculation after a corresponding operation, in which the sperm flows back into the bladder.
Karezza Sexual practice in which the man consciously and voluntarily refrains from ejaculation
Kunyaza Traditionally used in Rwanda, this method literally means ‘to make a man urinate’. The aim is to achieve a female orgasm of a special quality, which is associated with female ejaculation.
Kiss Physical contact with a person or object using the mouth.
Tickling Erotic play between two partners that is intended to enhance sex life. While the passive partner is given the opportunity to reduce inhibitions, let go and confide in the other, the active partner can learn to sense the desires of the other.
Masturbation A – predominantly manual – stimulation of one’s own sexual organs, which usually leads to orgasm. Various aids can also be used.
Breast intercourse (also known as breast sex or tit fucking)
Form of sexual intercourse in which the sexual partner’s sexual organ is rubbed against the partner’s breasts. It can be practiced between a man and a woman as well as between two women.
Machine sex Sexual practice in which you can be brought to orgasm by machine using suitable sex toys. A sexual partner is not required for this.
Nipple stimulation Widespread sexual practice that is often practiced in conjunction with other practices, but can also be practiced alone.
Oral sex Collective term for sexual practices in which one sexual partner stimulates the genitals of the other with the mouth (lips, tongue, teeth).
Orgy Term for communal acts that deliberately violate morality, especially sexual morality.
Public sexual intercourse Sexual intercourse that takes place in a public space or is freely visible from there.
Pegging (sexual practice) Sexual practice in which a man (or woman) is anally penetrated by a woman using a strap-on.
Petting sexual acts between people that include any kind of sexual stimulation without consummation of sexual intercourse.
Phone sex Satisfying sexual desires over the phone.
Prostate massage Sexual practice for sexual stimulation.
Quickie ‘Quickie’: (spontaneous) sexual intercourse, especially sexual intercourse with very brief or no foreplay.
Roleplay The variations of role play in(  > BDSM Blog below) or in a sexual context in general are countless. There are those in which you remain yourself, but turn other or only certain character traits outwards. Staging the typical BDSM power imbalance is also a kind of role play. One side takes on the submissive role, the other the dominant one. Age play is another example of role play in which you retain your own identity. Here, the role changes with age. Of course, role-playing games also offer the exciting opportunity to shed your own identity. Namely when you portray a different, fictitious person. Many kinksters also love to transform themselves into an animal or an object. They don’t want to play as a person at all.
Sexual magic Sexual and magical practices in the context of modern Western occultism and, more broadly, modern spiritual movements in the Western world and the concepts associated with them.
Snowballing (also known as cum swapping or cumswapping for short) Sexual practice in which semen is collected in the mouth during oral sex in order to give it to another person as part of a French kiss, for example.
Sodomy Sexual behavior that does not serve the purpose of procreation in marriage (non-regenerative). For sexual preference for animals, see zoophilia.
Stealthing Abusive sexual practice where the sexual partner secretly removes their condom without the consent of the other partner and penetrates their body without a condom.
Submission > BDSM Blog below
Tease and denial (T&D) Collective term for all those sexual practices that are used to intensify sexual arousal without reaching orgasm. These types of sexual play are usually part of a sexual relationship with a partner, regardless of gender, sexual preference and orientation.
Thigh intercourse The sexual stimulation of a man by rubbing his penis between the thighs of another person.
Urethral intercourse Sexual intercourse involving the urethra. The man’s penis is inserted into the woman’s urethra.
Vaginal intercourse Mixed-sex human physical union involving the insertion of an erect penis into a woman’s vagina
Verbal eroticism Term for an interest in talking or boasting about sexual fantasies and (alleged) sexual experiences, which presumably exceeds the actual sexual experience.
Voyeurism Form of sexuality in which a voyeur (colloquially also known as a peeping Tom) is sexually aroused by looking at undressed or naked people or by observing sexual acts.

Sexual Abbreviations

24/7 In a BDSM context, this indicates that a relationship or submission is practiced around the clock, i.e., seven days a week.
18+ / 30+ / 40+ Often refers to the age of the partner being sought or one’s own age.
2-in-1 Can refer to a meeting with two people (e.g., a couple).
3, Threesome, Tri Abbreviation for a threesome (sex with three people)
411 A third party date check service where both providers and clients can be screened by the service. Then provide their “handle” to potential clients and providers so they can view likes/dislikes of one another to ensure compatibility and screening him
69 Partners perform oral sex on each other simultaneously
ABC American born Chinese
ABJ American born Japanese
AFF Adult Friend Finder (a popular USA dating website)
AFF Asian Friend Finder (a popular Asian dating website) Agency a business/company that handles bookings, advertising, screening, and phone calls for escorts Aircon
BBBJ + Hacks (a sweet mint) Example: When the masseuse asks, “want aircon?” if yes, she puts one ‘hacks sweet’ into her mouth and start giving a blow job Amazon A masculine female, tall and strong
AMP Asian Massage Parlor Analingus licking anus, anal rimming (Oral stimulation of anus) Anal Rimming Oral stimulation of anus. Anti-Sex Pervert These are the “real” perverts, the people who are against the concept of healthy men engaging in sex with willing female partners
AR Anal Rimming (Oral stimulation of anus) Around the world Analingus and Fellatio Asian Cowgirl Girl on top, squatting
AR Ass Rim, Anal Rimming
ASAP As Soon As Possible (not sex related)
ASP Adult Service Provider
ASP alt.sex.prostitution newsgroup
ATF All Time Favorite
ATM, A2M Ass To Mouth Aunt Flo Menstruation
AVN Adult Video News/Awards, a porn industry convention and and awards show
B2B body to body
Babyback Petite, young, attractive Asian
Backpage An online database where escorts post their ads, generally separated by region, and clients can “shop” for an escort, typically faster service, lower prices, and many of the prostitutes are trafficked and/or managed by pimps
Bad Boy Report A website where providers can report a rip-off client, dangerous client, a stalker, etc.
Bait and Switch Person who shows up is a different one than advertised
Baja Sur Genitals From the spanish “the low south”
Balloons Breast implants
Bareback Sex without condom
Barracuda A professional prostitute who’s only purpose is to separate you from your money as quickly as possible, preferably without giving you anything in return
Batin (Malaysia) Groin massage, but sometimes means Handjob
BBC Big Black Cock
BBBJ Bare Back Blow Job (oral sex without condom)
BBBJTC Bare Back Blow Job to Completion (oral sex to orgasm)
BBBJNQNS Bare Back Blow Job No Quit No Spit
BBBJTCWS Bare Back Blow Job to Completion with Swallowing
BBBJWF Bare Back Blow Job With Facial
BBFS Bare Back Full Service (sex without condom)
BBS Barber Shop
BBW Big Beautiful Woman
BCD Behind Closed Doors
BDSM “bondage and discipline” (B&D), “dominance and submission” (D&S), and “sadism and masochism” (S&M) > BDSM blog below
Beret A condom.
Beso Negro Anal Rimming
BF Boy Friend
BFA Big Fat Ass
BFE Boy Friend Experience
BGR Boy-Girl-Relationship 
BBBJTCWS, BJ Blow Job (oral sex on a man)
BL Body Lick
Blackhole Anus
BLS Ball Licking and Sucking
Blue Pill Viagra
Blue Steel Viagra
Boutique, Agency An agency that typically does not use fake pictures, upsell, or rip guys off, more catered to repeat customers
Brothel A business establishment where men can stop in and pay for a sexual service
Brown Shower Defecation on your partner
BS Body slide Service where woman may slide her body on yours using oil, or Nuru
BS Body Scrub
BSD Big Swinging Dick
BSW Black Street Walker
BTW By the Way
Butterface Everything looks good, but her face …
Call Agency An agency that typically employs hundreds or even thousands of escorts, who call-in and call-off, and a client can call and usually have an escort delivered to him within an hour or so
Call Girl Outcall provider usually implies call type agency
Cash and Dash takes the money and runs
CBJ Covered Blow Job (oral sex with a condom)
CBT Cock and Ball Torture
CC Roman Numeral for 200. Roman numerals sometimes used for fees. (Roman Numeral converter)
CC Credit Card
CC Rider Full service provider costing $200 or less.
CCL Concentration Camp Look. CD Cross-dresser: transvestite, a person, and especially a male who adopts the dress and often the behavior typical of the opposite sex especially for purposes of emotional or sexual gratification.
CDS Covered Doggy Style
CFF Chinese Friend Finder (a popular dating website)
CFM Come Fuck Me, usually refer to the look of a person.
CFS Covered Full Service (sex with condom)
CG Call Girls
CG Casino Girls
CG Club Girls
CH Crazy Horse
CIA Cum In Mouth
CIA Cum In Ass
SF Strip Club
LV strip club
Cheong Hokkien Originally means Charge. Used as going out for some happening stuff.
Chump A man who gives his money and/or his attention to women without getting any pussy in return. Largely a phenomenon experienced by American men when dating American women. Don’t be a chump!
CIM Cum in Mouth
City Vibe An online database where escorts pay to post their ads, generally separated by region, and clients can “shop” for an escort
Civilian A woman who makes herself available for sexual encounters but not for financial gain. May be less discreet than a provider and more interested in a relationship.
CL Craigslist, a popular classified ad website where escorts have been known to advertise and otherwise promote their availability.
Client A person who purchases or receives prostitution services from a provider
Clockwatcher A term for a provider who counts the minutes until the session is over.
CMD Carpet Matches Drapes (typically a natural blonde)
CMP Chinese Massage Parlor
CMT Certified Massage Therapist. A professional masseuse.
COB Cum on Breast
COF Cum on Face Collar and Cuffs match Pubic hair matches natural hair-color (redheads, blondes) Completion
Orgasm e.g. She gave a bareback blowjob to completion.
Completo Spanish for “complete”, usually meaning with or including anal sex.
Cover Condom Covered Various measures, such as the use of condoms or dental dams, are taken to avoid diseases (as AIDS) transmitted by sexual contact. (e.g. Covered Blow Job means a condom was used.)
CHHFS Covered Half Hour Full Service.
CG Cowgirl girl on top facing you.
Craigslist A popular classified ad website where escorts have been known to advertise and otherwise promote their availability.
Crime scene action Sexual activity during her period.
Cruising Looking for prostitutes while driving.
CS Cyber Sex
CS Chat Sex > Live-Chat
Cups of Coffee How many times a release or orgasm happened
Dance and Dash A rip-off. She shows up, takes your money, doesn’t provide, might offer to “dance”, and leaves.
Date A session with a prostitute.
Date-Check A third party website that acts as a pre-screening service, but is more like a classifieds for providers and clients to connect and network
DATO Dining at the O,
Anilingus oral stimulation of the anus
DATY Dining at the Y (Performing oral sex on a woman)
DDE Doesn’t Do Extras (PS only)
DDF Drug and Disease Free
DDG Drop Dead Gorgeous
DDP Double Digit Penetration (pussy and anus), or just DP Deep Throat Fellatio where the whole length of the penis is “swallowed” Defender A poster who defends or “comes to the rescue” of a provider who has been reviewed poorly, regardless of whether the review is accurate Delta Omega Gamma DOG. Deposit A provider requires an upfront payment in advance of a session.
DFE Dead Fish Experience
DFF Dead Fish Fuck
DFK Deep French Kissing
DM, DM me direct message
DIY Do It Yourself (masturbation) Doggie Man behind girl, girl on hands and knees.
DP Double Penetration
DP Digital penetration
DS Doggy Style. Man behind girl, girl on hands and knees. Donation Payment to a provider Doubles A threesome with two girls and you 
DSL Dick Sucking Lips
DT Dining at the Toes
DT Deep Throat, Deep Throatning
DTD Deep Throat Dungeon. A place where dominatrices and clients or just plain civilian people can go to use a variety of > BDSM sex apparatuses
ECCIE a review board for clients and providers to screen and connect with one another Ed Zachary disease A woman with an unattractive face Ellie
LE Law Enforcement
EMA Extra-Marital-Affairs. Affairs after marriage
EMP European Massage Parlor (white girls) Enhancements Breast implants Envelope Often cash payments for a provider are placed in an envelope. Rather than handing her cash directly, or discussing money, the envelope is left in a conspicuous location for the provider to pick up as she leaves (outcall), or after the hobbyist leaves (incall).
EOM End Of Message. Eros An online database where escorts pay to post their ads, generally separated by region, and clients can “shop” for an escort Escort A woman who is paid for her companionship, a temporary companion for hire Escort Mall An online database where escorts pay to post their ads, generally separated by region, and clients can “shop” for an escort Face painting Man ejaculates on woman’s face Facial Cumming on partner’s face
FBSM Full Body Sensual Massage
FFF Refers to the strategy of “Find them, Fuck them, Forget them” Fire and ice a blowjob switching between hot tea and ice
FIV Finger In Vagina
Five-O A police officer (uniformed or undercover).
FJ Foot job. Stimulation of the penis using feet and toes.
FJ Fuck Job
FK French Kiss, French Kissing > DFK
FKK Frei Körper Kultur (German brothel / nudist club)
FL Free Lance
Flake, Flaky Errant behavior, often used for providers who no-show and/or have scheduling issues.
FOB Fresh Off the Boat (Asian immigrant recently arrived in the US)
FOBU Fat-Old-Bald-Ugly
FOTC Fuck Of The Century
FOV Finger Outside Vagina
FR Field Report
Fuck Review French Oral sex on either party.
French Kissing Kissing on mouth with tongue contact > DFK
French Without Oral sex without condom
FS Full Service (complete sex) Full meal deal Full Service
Vaginal intercourse to completion. Full Service Intercourse
FUTB Finger Up The Butt Get Comfortable Get completely naked.
GDP Garota de Program (working girl, on the program)
GF Girl Friend
GFE Girl Friend Experience, typically
BBBJ, CFS, DFK, DATY, and MSOG GF3 Girl Friend Experience w/all three holes Glove Condom
GND Girl Next Door
Golden Shower Urinating on your partner, urine play. 
GRO Guest Relations Officer (The Philippines) Generally refers to women in the employ of night clubs and similar establishments. A polite reference to working girls.
GS Golden Shower (urination play)
GSM G-Spot Massage
GV Geschlechtsverkehr = Intercourse (in German) Half and Half Oral sex followed by intercourse.
Happy ending A handjob (usually) or blowjob after your massage
Hardwood Floors Clean shaven pussy.
Hat Condom
HC Health Center
HC High Class
HDH high dollar hottie
HE Happy Ending Herb Friendly Is amenable to marijuana use.
HH half hour
HHHJ Half Hearted Hand Job.
Hidden Charges A provider takes the advertised fee upfront, but midway through the session she asks for more money for more services. (e.g. She might undress and give a massage for the advertised $$, but then ask for an additional $ for French, or $$ for FS, etc.) Hindu Massage (Argentina) The woman contracts her vaginal muscles during sex to squeeze you to completion.
HJ Hand Job
HM High Mileage
HME Honeymoon Experience (lapdog heaven) Hobby The patronizing of prostitutes.
Hobbyist A man who visit prostitutes with some frequency, and calls himself a “hobbyist” because seeing prostitutes is his “hobby”
Hobby Pimp, Lover Boy Trick, the “Loverboy” method is a form of human trafficking and forced prostitution in which perpetrators deliberately exploit emotional dependence to sexually exploit young girls and women (and, in rare cases, boys)
Hooker Prostitute
Hostess Club A lower end strip club where bargaining for sex acts with the dancers is acceptable, and some activities may occur on premises
Hourly A hotel or establishment you can rent by the hour instead of paying for a full night
House An underground brothel, often with trafficked and/or underage women
HR Hand Release (a hand job)
HSW Hispanic Street Walker
HTUMA Her Tongue Up My Ass = The famed rim job
HWP Height and Weight Proportionate
IMHO In My Humble/Honest Opinion
Independent, Indie An escort who works on her own, without an agency affiliation. The escort manages her own calls, bookings, advertising and finances.
Interpreter Condom (e.g. She spoke French without the aid of an interpreter = BBBJ)
IPO Initial public offering: used to denote the public introduction of a new provider, usually via a review.
ISO In Search Of Italian Penis rubbing between butt cheeks.
Jack Shack Refers to an establishment (massage parlor, lingerie modelling) that is not usually full service; expect only massage (usually nude or topless) and handjob, but more services might be available.
Jimmy Hat A condom
John A man who patronizes prostitutes.
Kitty vagina
Lapdog Person who worships providers to excess.
L/A/S Looks/Attitude/Service: A subjective ranking system. Each criteria separately ranked, from lowest (1) to highest (10). Examples: 2/9/8 = Unnattractive, but very friendly and good sex. 10/5/4 = Model material, but a poor attitude, and mediocre sex.
Landing Strip Description of pubic hair
LBFM Little Brown Fucking Machine LC Local Chinese LCN Latin Chica Network (The chica’s mental telepathy network system, which is faster than any electronic network could ever be, although the data does experience major corruption issues during transmissions)
LDL low dollar looker (opposite of HDH)
LE Law Enforcement
LEO Law Enforcement Officer
LFK Light Face Kissing
Little Blue Helper Viagra
Little Blue Pill Viagra
LK Light Kissing (closed mouth)
LMP Licensed Massage Practitioner
LOL Laugh Out Loud LOS Land of Smiles (refers to Thailand) Lot Lizards Prostitutes who operate out of truck stops or other trucker hangouts.
Lover Boy > Hobby Pimp
LSB Lap Sup Bar (low class bar)
LT Long Time (usually overnight) L1, L2, L3
UTR Slang for Handjob, blowjob, full service
LTR Long Term Relationship Madame Proprietress of an agency.
Mall, Escort Mall A website that advertises many different providers. The providers may be independent or agency, and may or may not be associated with each other, or with the mall.
Mamasan Female manager of a massage parlor.
Man in a boat, little man in a boat
Clitoris Massage Parlor A residential apartment instead of a commercial storefront usually where sex acts can be purchased
MBR Multiple Bell Ringing (MSOG) Mediterranean Anal sex e.g. “She took me on a trip to the Mediterranean.”
Merkin Pubic hair wig.
MG Massage Girl
MIB Man in blue, law enforcement officer.
Mileage A subjective term that describes value for money and/or how accommodating she is. Good mileage usually means she either charges less than average, provides better
L/A/S than average, or both.
MILF Mother I’d Like to Fuck.
Mish Missionary position, Man on top during intercourse
Missionary Man on top, girl on back.
MJ Massage Job ML Make Love ML Massage Lady
MM Man made breasts
MMF, MFM, MFF Threesome designations. e.g. MMF = male, male, female MFF = male, female, female.
Mohawk A thin rectangular strip of pubic hair.
Monger Short for W h o r e monger. One who frequents prostitutes.
MP Massage Parlor MP Multiple Pops (multiple releases)
MPA Massage Parlor Attendant
MSOG Multiple Shots on Goal (multiple releases)
Multiple Pops She allows you to have more than 1 orgasm during the session (e.g. more than one or multiple pops allowed)
National Blacklist A website where providers can report a dangerous client and be aware of activities that put providers at risk
NCNS No call, no show for appointment Newbie A novice hobbyist or novice provider.
NGP Non Genuine Photos
NMG No-Money Guys. Mongers who travel on a strict budget.
Nooner A lunch-time or afternoon session, popular with married hobbyists.
No-Show Escort or Client never shows up for an appointment, does not contact in advance to cancel or warn.
No-Touch No touching allowed. (e.g. No-touch Jack shack, no-touch strip club)
NQBC Non-quitter, but covered.
CBJ to completion.
NQBS Non-quitter, but spitter.
BBBJTC and spits your ejaculate.
NQNS Non-quitter, non-spitter.
BBBJTC and swallows your ejaculate.
NSA No Strings Attached. O, Os Orgasm, orgasms.
Off-the-clock Activities that occur with a provider that she chooses not to charge for. (e.g. “We had lunch off-the-clock”)
OKP Or-Kui-Poh – It means a Female pimp in Hokkien, a Chinese dialect, but sometimes people use OKP/OKT to describe a supervisory person who will guide you in your selection of girls in a spa. OKT Or-Kui-Tao – It means a Male pimp in Hokkien, a Chinese dialect, but sometimes people use OKP/OKT to describe a supervisory person who will guide you in your selection of girls in a spa.
OMFIAMP One Man’s Food Is Another Man’s Posion, (pronounced “Ohm-Fam”)
ONS One Night Stand
OTOH On the Other Hand
Outcall The girl provider comes to you Out, Outed Private, personal information on a hobbyist or provider is made public. e.g. Someone’s real name and address is posted to a public forum.
OV Oralverkehr = Oral Sex (in German)
OVN Overnight
OWO Oral With Out a condom
OWOTC Oral Without Condom To Completion P4P Pay for Play. Refers to the concept of paying for sex.
Papasan Male manager of a massage parlor.
Party Hat Condom
Pearl Necklace Man ejaculates on woman’s neck and/or chest
PAWG Phat Ass White Girl
PFF Pussy For Free (A non-existant fantasy)
Pimp A man who solicits clients for a prostitute.
Pinay A Philippine Girl.
PIV Penis in Vagina
PL Pathetic Loser
PM Private Message sent via the Forum’s
Private Message service
PO Phone Operator
POF Plenty of Fish
Pooner A hobbyist who is immersed in the hobby culture. e.g. He may be very involved with the review boards and/or private exchange of information on providers and the hobby.
Pops, multiple She allows you to have more than 1 orgasm during the session (e.g. more than one or multiple pops allowed)
POS Pussy on the Side Preferred 
POV Point Of View, porn filmed from the protagonist’s perspective
Price per act More common with streetwalkers and call agencies, girl charges a price per act, a BJ is one price, full service is another price, kissing is a different price, and so on
Prostitution Trading sexual services for items of value or money Provider Prostitute
PS Private Show (Dance)
PSE Porn Star Experience
Punter British slang for a man who engages in sex with prostitutes.
PV Private Viewing (Dance)
PW Pussy Whipped (A guy controlled by a girl because she gives him sex)
R & T Rub and Tug (a massage followed by a hand job)
RA Relaxation Assistant Raincoat Condom
RAW Sex without condom
RB myredbook.com (a former review site based in the San Francisco Bay Area, now shut down)
RCA Reverse Cowgirl Anal
REQ Request – Used in the subject line of a post to indicate the body contains a request for information.
REV Review – Used in the subject line of a post to indicate the body contains review of a provider.
Reverse Cowgirl Girl on top facing away.
Reverse Half and Half Intercourse followed by oral sex to completion.
Reverse Massage You massage her. Review A critical evaluation of a provider. May include information on her looks, attitude and service
Review Boards An online database where clients and providers openly chat about prostitution, advertise services, and read specific details about how a date with an escort might go
Reverse Oral The client performs oral sex on the provider.
Rimming Analingus
RLD Red Light District
RMP Russian Massage Parlor
ROB Rip Off B i t c h
ROFLMAO Rolling On (the) Floor Laughing My Ass Off!
Roman An orgy situation
Roman Shower Vomit play
RPG Role playing games
RSK2 A third party date check service where men can pay for membership, be screened by the service, then give his “handle” to potential providers so she can screen him through the service
RTF Return To Fuck
RTFF Read the Fucking Forum
Russian In Australia Short sex session, aka a “Quickie”
Safe Sexual activity in which various measures, such as the use of condoms or dental dams, are taken to avoid disease (as AIDS) transmitted by sexual contact. e.g. All activities were safe. San Juan Capistrano
BBBJTC and she swallows.
Sandbag, Sandbagger A subjective term for a review (or reviewer) that misleads the reader by giving unwarranted praise to a provider.
Sans Without. e.g. She provided french sans beret = BBBJ
SC Strip Club
Scat Defecation on your partner or feces play.
Screening A provider or agency does a pre-session background check on a new client
Seeking Arrangements A classifieds style website that men and women can meet one another for a no-strings-attached type of relationship, usually for money
Self-post A provider or agency poses as a hobbyist, and posts a highly positive review of herself or agency to increase business.
Self-Service You masturbate e.g. “It was a self-service jack shack” = no contact with the dancer, but the man can masturbate.
Sensual Massage Not usually full service; expect only massage (usually nude or topless) and handjob, but more services might be available.
Session Paid time spent with a provider.
Sex Worker Catch all phrase sometimes used to describe prostitutes. May also be used in the context of strippers, peep show workers, topless waitresses
SSC safe, sane, and consensual ( > submission, bottom)
SFH Sex for hire
SG Street Girls Shemale Transexual, particularly one who is living as a woman, but hasn’t had
SRS. Penis may or may not get erect Shill An insider posing as a satisfied customer Shill A hobbyist who writes unwarranted positive reviews in exchange for discounts or special favors from an agency or provider
Shots on goal Shot On Goal (one release) 
Sixty-nine > 69
Slam, Slammed An unwarranted harsh review or abusive criticism of a provider Slixa An online database where escorts pay to post their ads, generally separated by region, and clients can “shop” for an escort
SO Significant Other
SOF Shit on Floor
SOG Shot On Goal (one release)
SOMF Sat on my face
SOP Standard Operating Procedure
Soixante neuf > 69
SOMF Sat On My Face
SOP Standard Operating Procedure South of the Border Genital Region Southern France BBBJ
SP Service Provider
SPA streetwalker stroll: San Pablo Avenue in Oakland, CA Spanish ATM[/b][/blue]
Spanish In Australia Penis between breasts
Spinner Very petite, thin girl.
Sponge An absorbent item inserted into the vagina during a menstrual cycle
Squirting, Squirter Female ejaculation, a provider who ejaculates
SRS Sexual reassignment surgery
ST Short Time
STD Sexually Transmitted Disease
Sting A female police officer poses as a prostitute to apprehend unsuspecting johns, or a male police officer poses as a john to apprehend unsuspecting prostitutes.
STR Short Term Relationship Street action Prostitution that is solicited on public streets. Prostitutes (usually on foot) are picked up by Johns in motor vehicles. Sexual acts may occur in the vehicle, or at another agreed upon location Stroll Path frequented by street walkers
Sugardaddy.com A classifieds-style website that men (sugar daddies) and women (sugar babbies) can meet one another for a no-strings-attached type of relationship, usually for money
Summer Teeth Her teeth, some are there, some are not
Sunshine, Sunny Without a condom (i.e. No raincoat)
SW Street Walker
SW Sex Worker
SWOP Sex Workers Outreach Program, a non-profit company that provides services to prostitutes seeking help
Sybian A mechanical sex device that is in the shape of half-barrel with a dildo attachment mounted in the middle
SYT Sweet Young Thing
Take care of business Payment is made to provider. e.g. “She wanted to take care of business first”
TAMP Therapeutic Asian Massage Parlor
TCSS Talk Cock Sing Song Teabag Man squats and dips balls in partner’s mouth
TD, T&D, Tease and denial Collective term for all those sexual practices that are used to intensify sexual arousal without reaching orgasm. These types of sexual play are usually part of a sexual relationship with a partner, regardless of gender, sexual preference and orientation.
TER The Erotic Review, a review board for clients and providers to screen and connect with one another
TG Transgender
TGTBT Too Good To Be True
Throne Job Self-service hand job. Refers to an establishment that doesn’t offer FS. The premises will only have a large chair or “throne” for you to sit on and masturbate while the woman dances for you.
Tina crystal meth
Tipping required Hidden charges, provider demands more than the advertised price in order to perform, or bargains hard for various services.
TJ Tijuana
TLD topless lap dance
TLN Toda La Noche (“All the Night” in Spanish)
TOFTT Take one for the team. In reference to a new, non-reviewed provider.
Took one for the team A hobbyist reviews a provider who has no (or scattered) reviews. He was ripped off, or his experience was very poor. Ostensibly, he has helped save other members of the community (the team) from making the same mistake.
TOS Take Out Service Tossing Salad analingus Translation, translator Condom i.e. “She spoke fluent french without a translator” = BBBJ Tri-F A devotee to the “Find them, Fuck them, Forget them” strategy
Trick A sex act for money.
Trick A man who patronizes prostitutes.
Troll Rude and hideous person
Trolling Posting thinly disguised ads in a discussion forum.
Trolling The act of driving around looking for a prostitute.
TS Table Shower
TS Transexual
TTA Tight Tan Ass Tuft Description of pubic hair.
TUMA Tongue Up My Ass Turn tricks Prostitution
TV Transvestite
TVSW Transvestite Street Walker Two Call System For incall locations. Your first call is to set up the time and get the general directions on where to park. Your second call is made when you arrive to get the specific address / room number. Umbrella Condom. Uncovered Without a condom Upsell The price changes once she gets in the room
UTR Under The Radar, a provider who doesn’t mass-market advertise Vet (someone) Screen them to make sure they’re legit and safe to see
VFM Value For Money
WAH Wild Ass Humping Water Sports Urination play. Weeklies Alternative weekly newspapers. These often contain various adult service listings, including massage and escort advertisements. e.g. The Village Voice, San Francisco Bay Guardian, The Stranger.
WF Wild Fuck
WG Working girl. A prostitute. WK White Knight A poster who defends or “comes to the rescue” of a provider who has been reviewed poorly, regardless of whether the review is accurate. Whore monger One who habitually patronizes prostitutes. See urbandictionary.com With With condom (e.g. French with = CBJ) Without Without condom. (e.g. French without = BBBJ)
WIR Would I Repeat, Would I Return, Would I Recommend
WL Working Lady. A prostitute.
WOA Word of Advice Working girl. A prostitute.
WSW White Street Walker
WTF What the Fuck? (I’m rather surprised by this) X Kiss O Hug
XOXO Kisses & Hugs
YMMV Your Mileage May Vary, reviews aren’t always consistent, usually depends on how well you

Sex Positions

Anal > Greek
Chinese sleigh ride / Finnish sleigh ride Position during vaginal intercourse in which the man gets into a kneeling or squatting position and his partner lies on his back in front of him. The man lifts the woman’s pelvis onto his thighs and inserts his penis into her so that he is kneeling between her thighs.
Coitus a tergo ‘Sexual intercourse from behind’ or vis a tergo (Latin for ‘force from behind’), often shortened to a tergo (Latin for ‘from behind’)
Generic term for several positions and variations of sexual intercourse in which one partner has the other’s back in view.
Cunnilingus Form of oral sex in sexuality in which the sexual partner (regardless of gender) stimulates the external female sexual organs – the clitoris, labia or vaginal entrance – with the tongue and lips.
Doggy position Variant of > coitus a tergo. In doggy style, the passive partner kneels on all fours and the active partner approaches him from behind and inserts his penis. Both the vagina and the anus can be penetrated.
Flanquette / Flank A heterosexual sex position in which both partners lie on their sides and turn halfway towards each other.
French Whether French Kiss or oral sex, French is always wet and with tongue. Lecki. Whether on the female genital or on the male, or immediately synchronous in the 69 position – you know how it works. If not, you can read everything about the lick job. > Sixty-nine / 69
Greek Greek sex refers to nothing more than anal intercourse. Allegedly, the name is based on the homoerotic connections of men in Greek antiquity.
Italian means armpit sex. The penis between armpit height and arm and rubbed …
Missionary position The woman lies on her back with her legs spread and the man on top of her. During sexual intercourse between men, the penetrating partner is also on top in the missionary position.
Riding position / Riding, riding position The penetrating partner lies on their back; the penetrated partner climbs over them and inserts their member into the vagina or anus in a kneeling or squatting position. This position is particularly suitable if the penetrating partner’s mobility is restricted (e.g. due to injuries or physical disabilities).
Russian Penis rubbing between breasts/titty fuck
Spanish Other, if not very common, are breast or mammal sex.
Sixty-nine / 69 Sexual position in which both partners satisfy each other orally at the same time. The partners lie on top of each other or turned on their sides so that one partner’s face is next to the other’s genitals and vice versa. This allows the man’s penis and scrotum and the woman’s external genitalia (clitoris, labia, vulva) to be orally stimulated and caressed by the other’s mouth (lips, tongue, teeth) at the same time. > French
Spoons position, spooning Variation of > coitus a tergo. In the spooning position, the partners lie on their sides and the active partner penetrates the passive partner’s anus or vagina from behind. 
Tribadism Non-penetrative sexual practice in which a woman rubs her external genitalia against her partner for the purpose of clitoral stimulation. The term is predominantly used in connection with a same-sex practice between women, but it can also refer to the rubbing of the vulva and clitoris against an object regardless of sexual orientation.
Tea bag Variation of sexual intercourse in which a man places his scrotum on the face or head of a sexual partner or inserts it into his/her mouth. The name tea bag refers to the similarity of the practice to the use of a tea bag and hot water. As a non-penetrative form of intercourse, it can be seen as a form of play in its own right or as foreplay.
Viennese oyster The woman lies on her back and crosses her legs behind the man’s head. The man penetrates and puts all his weight on the woman. During penetration, he feels increased pressure on his penis. In variations of the Viennese oyster, the woman can also cross her feet behind the man’s neck.

BDSM – Bondage and Discipline (B&D), Dominance and Submission (D&S), Sadism and Masochism (S&M)

BDSM isn’t limited to just a fetish. A fetish’ can be nearly everything. To be classified as a fetish, it has to be something that wouldn’t ‘commonly’ arouse someone sexually, from maybe socks to teddies, frees, cars and more. And BDSM is more than just a sexual activity performed on a whim, for the most flexible and experimental, adventurous kinksters, it’s lifestyle. 

Breath control The breathing of the passive partner (bottom) is either made more difficult or completely stopped for short periods of time.
BDSM emblem A special identification mark from the BDSM field.
Bottom A person who assumes the passive or submissive (  > submission) role for the duration of a play scene (session) or within a relationship.
Centering (BDSM) An erotic role-playing game in which a man slips into the role of a woman through clothing and behavior. It is a playful form of cross-dressing. In the BDSM scene, role play in which a gender other than one’s own is assumed is also referred to as gender play.
Cock and Ball Torture Sexual, pleasurable and painful stimulation of the penis and scrotum.
Cover (BDSM) Common term for a ‘guardian angel’ on blind dates.
Dominance > Submission
Dungeon (BDSM) A room specially prepared for BDSM activities.
Erotic humiliation Consensual technique used to generate erotic or sexual arousal for the person being humiliated and degraded.
Erotic Power Exchange A form of relationship within the BDSM scene that may include sadomasochism, but with an emphasis on shifting sexual control from the passive to the active partner (domi)
Educational play Special form of consensual sadomasochistic practices or erotic spanking.
Facesitting Sexual practice in which one sexual partner sits on the face of the other with their genitals and/or buttocks. This can be done either naked or clothed.
Femdom Abbreviation for female dominance and refers to BDSM variations in which a woman takes on the dominant role. The term can also refer to the dominant woman herself. By analogy, the dominance exercised by men or the male dominant is called maledom (male ‘man’ or ‘male’).
Figging Sexual practice in BDSM in which a prepared piece of ginger (similar to a suppository or a small butt plug) is inserted into the bottom’s anus and rectum as a foreign object.
Flagellantism Sexual preference for either beating oneself or being beaten by a partner.Chastity belt (also Florentine belt)Instrument for partial withdrawal of self-control, which is mainly used today in BDSM practices. It is intended to prevent the wearer from having sexual intercourse or masturbation. The typical construction consists of a steel belt around the waist in combination with a steel band through the crotch and a lock. Different designs for use on men (see penis cage) are also common.
Gag (mouth) Gags are used in some BDSM sexual practices, usually on a consensual, reasonable and safe basis, the principle known within the subculture as Safe, Sane, Consensual. The English term gag is often used instead of the German word. Well-known variants are the ball gag, ring gag, snaffle gag, balloon gag, penis gag, muzzle, adhesive tape, cloths, jaw spreader and hose gag.
Living furniture Erotic role play, also known as forniphilia, which occurs in various forms.MaledomAbbreviation for male domination and refers to the heterosexual variant of BDSM in which the man takes on the dominant role. The counterpart to maledom is femdom.
Maledom Abbreviation for male domination and refers to the heterosexual variant of BDSM in which the man takes on the dominant role. The counterpart to maledom is femdom.
Masochism A person who experiences sexual pleasure or satisfaction by being inflicted with pain or being humiliated.
Metaconsensus Controversial erotic role-playing games that move in the border area between consensual and non-consensual action. Metaconsent is also more rarely referred to in German as ‘consensual non-consent’ (CNC, amicable non-consensuality).
Mummification (BDSM) Sexual practice from the field of bondage in which the body or individual body parts are wrapped with suitable material, which severely restricts freedom of movement.
Mono glove Sex toy used to physically restrain a partner. It is used to fix the arms in a relatively comfortable position on the back. Both arms are stretched out and, as far as anatomically possible, arranged in parallel. The restrained partner cannot free themselves under their own power.
Penis cage (also known as a chastity cuff) Sex toy for restraining or partially withdrawing self-control over male genitalia. It is used as part of BDSM activities and prevents erection, masturbation and sometimes orgasm during erotic role play.
Powerlessness play This involves deliberately inducing a faint. Waking up can be associated with a euphoric feeling.
Petplay Erotic role play in which at least one partner plays the role of an animal.
Safeword A signal word used by the receiving partner to indicate that they do not wish to continue the act. In the context of consensual practices, a pronounced safeword (also for legal reasons) is regarded as an unconditional obligation to stop immediately. The efficient and trusting use of safewords is one of the absolutely necessary prerequisites for BDSM.
Safe, Sane, Consensual Two different concepts within BDSM to ensure consensuality between the participants in potentially risky activities and thus clearly distinguish the practices used from punishable sexual violence. The use or observance of SSC is both older in terms of developmental history and more widespread than that of RACK.
Sadism The exercise of power or violence over other people or animals is a source of sexual arousal for the patients concerned.
Spanking Slapping the clothed or exposed buttocks; in a broader sense also on neighboring body parts such as the thighs, back or external genitals. The blows are delivered with the flat of the hand or with an object such as a cane, whip, birch rod, carpet beater, hairbrush, paddle, martinet, tawse, bullwhip or similar.
Sub submissive and obedient, docile, devote people
Subspace Change of state of consciousness that the receiving partner (sub or bottom) can experience during a game scene and which is popular because of its similarity to intoxication. Another term for this is ‘flying’.
Submission submit and relinquish control ( > bottom)
When submitting – as with all other BDSM practices – it can be dangerous if it is not carried out in a safe, sane, and consensual (SSC) manner, as well as responsibly. Responsibility plays a crucial role here, both toward others and toward oneself. It is not only reckless but can also be dangerous to simply surrender yourself blindly to someone without first communicating limits and the exact terms of the power exchange. Especially when submission is not just part of a temporary role-play but is also part of a relationship, there is a risk of being exploited or harmed.
     Sexual submission: The key aspect here is surrendering control during sexual activity to another person. This may involve submitting to a partner’s sexual desires or fantasies, or assuming a dominant or submissive role within a relationship.
     Physical submission: This involves surrendering physical control to another person. This can occur, for example, through physical practices (kinks), such as wearing restraints, obedience and discipline, or being tied to objects.
     Emotional submission: This involves submitting emotionally to another person. This can mean subordinating one’s own desires and needs to a partner or supporting a partner in emotionally difficult situations.
     Financial submission: This involves one person giving another control over their finances. Financial decisions are then left to the partner, or one takes care of the partner’s finances within the relationship.
     Mental submission: This involves surrendering mental control to another person. This can occur, for example, through hypnosis or mental manipulation.
Submission does not mean giving up on yourself or letting someone else carry you because you have forgotten how to walk or because you no longer want to. Quite the contrary: submission should be viewed as a gift, not as a burden one hands over. That is why it is important to first take          responsibility for oneself before handing it over to another person. It is the Top’s responsibility not to simply accept submission blindly, but to assess whether one can and wants to accept the submission being offered at all. Only in this way can a safe relationship develop for both parties.
The dominance-submission relationship falls under the umbrella term BDSM and the associated lifestyle. BDSM stands for “bondage and discipline” (B&D), “dominance and submission” (D&S), and “sadism and masochism” (S&M). Many misconceptions about this relationship and the associated activities stem from the fact that early theories viewed sadomasochism and BDSM behavior as symptoms of psychopathology. It was assumed that people who engaged in these types of sexual practices disregarded safety and consent, which influenced the diagnosis, classification, and perception of this type of relationship. These prejudices, suggesting that all BDSM practitioners have disturbed tendencies, are linked to the definition and criteria for sadomasochism in the DSM-5 of the American Psychiatric Association. Consequently, many in the BDSM community do not meet these criteria.
Sensory deprivation Deprivation of sensory stimuli (i.e. sensory impressions, see also perception).
Switch (BDSM) The duration of a play scene (session), within a relationship or with different partners, can take on both the active and passive role. The other person is referred to as top (active) or bottom (passive) according to the chosen role of the switch. Switch, bottom or top can be male or female; the term only indicates the chosen role.
Top (BDSM) Person who takes on the more dominant, often active role for the duration of a play scene (session) or within a relationship. The other person is called the bottom.
Total enclosure Describes the complete enclosure of the body using a specific material, for example latex (also referred to here as heavy rubber), leather or Lycra (referred to here as zentai). Total enclosure can also support sensory deprivation by restricting the sense of touch.
Total Power Exchange Refers to a partnership concept in the BDSM scene that can include sadomasochism but focuses on D/s (dominance and submission). The aim is the complete submission of the submissive partner (often referred to as sub, slave or bottom) to the dominant partner (master/mistress or top).
Vanilla sex Practices that do not contain any fetish or BDSM elements; also used by heterosexuals to describe the missionary position as vanilla in the sense of ‘simple, just normal’.

Sex Toys

The variety today is practically endless

Anal hook A classic anal hook, also known as an anal hook or bondage hook, has a small ball at the end. The ball comes in various sizes and is used for anal stimulation.
Anal vibrator creating a vibrating sensation in the rectum to provide sexual pleasure > Electroplug
Bondage tape, handcuffy etc.pp
Butt plug (also spelled butt plug or butt plug and also anal plug or anal plug) A type of dildo that is inserted into the anus and, thanks to its special shape, can remain there securely without slipping in or out. Butt plugs are used by both men and women. They are used to prepare for anal intercourse as well as for sexual stimulation.
Cockring A ring made of leather, latex, rubber, silicone, soft plastic or metal that is placed around the penis, glans or scrotum. Rings made of metal are worn as intimate jewelry, e.g. behind the glans. A cock ring can be used for erectile dysfunction or generally to strengthen and prolong the erection during various sexual practices. Rings worn around the scrotum also keep the testicles in one place during orgasm, which is intended to intensify the orgasm.
Dilator (also dilator or bougie) Device for widening (bougienage) existing body orifices (e.g. urethra, anus, oesophagus, vagina, cervix) or artificial accesses such as the puncture canal for the insertion of a central venous catheter or a puncture tracheostomy
Dildo (also Godemiché) Sex toy that usually resembles an erect penis in its classic shape and size. However, in recent years, other materials, shapes and colors have also been offered. Dildos for female customers are often offered in bright colors and imaginative shapes, while male customers often prefer lifelike phallic shapes. The dildo is inserted for vaginal or anal penetration to stimulate the clitoris and the so-called G-spot in women or the prostate in men during masturbation or used for mutual stimulation during sex play.
Electroplug (also e-plug or stimulation current plug) A type of dildo that is inserted into the anus. Electroplugs are used by both men and women. They are used to prepare for anal intercourse and for erotic electrostimulation through the supply of stimulation current. Electroplugs are used with bi- or monopolar stimulation current devices that emit electricity for TENS.
Fleshlight, artificial vagina or masturbator Device that simulates a vagina. Also available in versions for the mouth or anus. 
Hitachi Magic Wand (also known as Magic Wand Original and Original Magic Wand, or Magic Wand for short)
Electrically operated, wand-shaped massager with a vibrating head section. The device was originally developed to treat muscle tension and later became famous for its use as a vibrator for clitoral stimulation.
Lubricant supports natural lubricity
Pressure wave vibrator > Satisfyer
Pleasure balls (also known as love balls, anal balls, orgasm balls, sometimes also pleasure beads, love beads or ‘thunder balls’)
There are different sex toys that are referred to as pleasure balls: Rin-no-tama, Ben-wa, Anal chains, anal beads, anal beads
Satisfyer Pressure wave vibrator. A standard vibrator is suitable for a wide variety of erogenous zones and stimulates you with intense vibrations. A pressure wave vibrator, on the other hand, is designed for clitoral stimulation and provides contactless pleasure through sensual suction and stimulating, pulsating pressure waves. This creates a completely new sensation that cannot be compared to the type of stimulation provided by a vibrator. The sensation is often described as similar to oral sex. Thanks to the intense stimulation, many women find it easier to reach orgasm more quickly.
Sex machine (also fuck machine) Mechanical device that is used to stimulate a person sexually
Sex doll Life-size replicas of the human (usually female, but also male), occasionally also animal, body that are used as sex aids, usually for masturbation. More rarely, this term is also used to describe dolls that are used to demonstrate the sexual organs or sexual processes of humans and animals in order to illustrate the sexual organs or sexual processes, and which therefore belong to the category of biomodels.
Sex robot A robot or an electronic sex doll which, in contrast to a pure sex machine, usually has an anthropomorphic appearance and is used for sexual acts or fantasies.
Sybian Is an electric motor-driven sex toy developed by David L. Lampert and manufactured by his company Abco Research Associates in Monticello (Illinois), from where it is distributed worldwide (see also sex machine).
Testicular parachute Cone-shaped cuff that is placed around the scrotum. The cuff is called a parachute because of its resemblance to a parachute. The cuff is often made of leather, but can also be made of or with latex, rubber or lacquer. Decorative rivets are often attached on the outside or small steel pins on the inside to give the wearer an additional sensory stimulus. Chains with a ring or hook are usually attached to the sides of the cuff. Weights can be attached to this ring to regulate the pressure or tension on the scrotum.
Urethral plug A urethral plug is used to stimulate the urethra and can be used by both men and women, but there are also special versions just for men
Vibrator (standard vs > Satisfyer) Electromechanical sex toys in various shapes and made of different materials that are vibrated by a small electric motor. Originally developed as a medical device to combat so-called ‘female hysteria’, the movement is intended to stimulate erogenous zones on the body. Today, vibrators are mainly designed as masturbation aids or sex toys for sexual intercourse between partners for the sexual arousal of women, but can also be used by men. Special vibrators are available for certain areas of the body, such as the breast or anus.

Modelling Levels / Agreement / Release

One possible definition (Purple Port). There are no fixed rules in the sense of laws. When casting you a precise agreement and a written fixation (the so called model release or ‘release’) always takes place on our part to ensure all partners know what will happen. This project (eARTfoto / Erotic Art Photgraphy EAP) settled somewhere between ‘Adult’ and ‘Soft’. Ask for the ‘Moodboard Standard Set’.

Portrait Simple as it sounds. Fully clothed portrait-style shots.
Fashion Generally fully clothed, wearing particular outfits.
Glamour This is the most challenging term to deal with as it covers everything from lingerie to explicit adult nude levels. It is best to find out exactly what’s required before committing to shoot.
Lingerie Wearing lingerie or swimwear. If you do not do nude work, be aware that some lingerie is see-through, particularly under flash lighting. 
Implied Topless/Nude This is where you wear clothes, but it looks like you are topless or nude.
Concealed Topless/Nude You may be topless or nude, but no nipples, male bits or lady bits are showing. Usually, this is achieved by careful placement of items.
Topless Breasts and nipples on show.
Artistic/Classic/Figure Nude/Nude Full nude but no generally explicit poses. This could be in the artistic style with no provocative posing or sexual implications, or it could be a suggestive glamour style. Best to find out before the shoot.
Adult A generic term. Generally means explicit images in some way. It’s best to confirm what is wanted/required to avoid embarrassment later.
Playboy Nude This is the middle ground between artistic and adult level nude. Playboy is the least explicit adult magazine. Difficult level to explain. This style generally means fairly artistic nudity. You may be asked to do open-leg poses but not show your ‘undercarriage’ in detail. You will probably be standing, sitting with legs apart or maybe side-on or facing away from the camera (rather than full-on facing the camera with your legs behind your ears at 10 to 2 in the explicit adult style. This is still regarded as open leg. 
Top Shelf Levels This style is found in magazines on the top shelf of your local newsagent and is a massive market in itself, making up a large chunk of the glamour industry. For a model, it is a relatively quick and easy route to a good income because publishers are constantly looking for new faces but be aware once your images are out there in print or on the web, they are there permanently.
UK Magazine This is an old term that refers to open leg posing of a style found in UK magazines that used to be less explicit than their US counterparts. This is no longer the case, and most UK top-shelf magazines now require the same levels as the US ones. For this glossary, UK mag means wide-open leg posing, genitals on display but not holding open or inserting anything.
US Magazine The ‘industry standard’ level for most UK and US men’s magazines. Involves open-leg posing with the genitals held open. There are no insertions or use of sex toys etc., at this level.
Continental So-called because at one time, this level of posing could only be found in continental magazines. It involves the insertion of sex toys or fingers or whatever in the genitals. This level is now found on the website versions of many top-shelf mags in the UK and is essentially the ‘industry standard’ for the US market. Some reasonably well-known publications such as Penthouse and Hustler sometimes now go up to this level. When someone offers you a ‘continental’ level shoot, please be aware it is unlikely they mean a trip to San Tropez.
Girl/Girl Artistic Like artistic nude, nude – no explicit posing.
Boy/Girl Artistic As above for Girl/Girl Artistic. 
Girl/Girl Soft Be very careful if asked to do this, and ensure you know what is required. Some may interpret these levels as the same as artistic, but ‘soft’ girl/girl in magazine terms is an explicit level and involves just about everything short of actual penetration with toys etc. Just be clear on what’s required.
Boy/Girl Soft As above for Girl/Girl Soft.
Girl/Girl Hard This level crosses the boundary between modelling and porn. If you wish to do this, you would be well advised to take advice from people in the porn industry regarding health precautions, certifications etc.
Boy/Girl Hard The same advice as above applies, but even more so!